tonight brett invited me to go bowling, and i agreed. at 4:30, we had the entire bowling alley to ourselves. we played two rounds, and each had a beer. it was the most random & fun midweek activity. it is so easy for me to get stuck in my scheduled routine, and it can be difficult for me to be sporadic and open to a spur of the moment invite. but i told myself that i should yes, and we had a blast. bowling! on a wednesday. just the two of us. so great.